ARE WE LIVING TO DIE, OR DYING TO LIVE?

By: Bareeha Asim

  In the continuous flow of modern life, we barely pause to ask uncomfortable questions. We follow a relentless constant rhythm, waking up to the sound of alarms, rushing through routines, chasing deadlines, and collapsing into sleep only to repeat the same cycle the next day as if it is the only purpose of life. In the middle of this busyness, existence itself becomes mechanical. Yet, beneath the noise of productivity, race of deadlines, and survival lies a question humanity has wrestled for centuries: are we living to die or dying to truly live? Many religions promise an afterlife. Heaven, paradise, salvation, afterlife, or eternal peace are presented as consequences of how one lives in the present world rather than being presented as an abstract reward. Life, if seen through this spectrum, is not something random or meaningless, but is preparatory. The present is not a destination but a passage. A stage of performance on which every action holds meaning and leads to consequences. This belief has historically shaped moral system, social behavior, and personality accountability. However, in a world obsessed with material success and speed, the awareness of this preparation appears to be fading. Religion does not merely speak of life after death, but emphasizes on the responsibilities before death. Actions are not isolated but moral investments. Good deeds are not wasted and wrong doing is not erased by time. Whether framed through divine judgement, or moral accountability, the underlying idea remains consistent, what we do here echoes beyond this life. The present world becomes a testing ground, where intentions are weighed and choices matter. Yet, paradoxically, while belief in afterlife persists, its practical influence has weakened. Many people profess faith while living as though consequences end with death. Ethics become conditional, honesty negotiable and compassion optional. This contradiction raises an unsettling possibility. Perhaps we believe in the afterlife in the theory, but we live as if only this world exists. Modern busyness plays a crucial role in this disconnection. Life today is not just fast but it is consuming. Productivity is glorified, rest is guilt ridden, and self-worth is often measured by output rather than character. In this environment, reflection feels like a luxury. People no longer sit with their thoughts, silence has become uncomfortable. The result is a life lived in autopilot, where moral reflection is postponed indefinitely. Busyness also alters priorities. Success is defined by income, status and visibility while values like humility, patience and accountability are sidelined. The pressure to “keep up” leaves little space to ask whether the path itself is worth following. When life becomes a race, death feels like an interruption rather than a culmination. Consequently, the afterlife is treated as a distant concept rather than an imminent reality. This detachment is menacing. When individual stop viewing life as preparation, actions lose depth. Kindness becomes transactional, morality situational, and repentance become an afterthought. Religious teachings consistently warn against this mindset. The purpose of remembering death is not to instill fear but awareness. It reminds humans that power is temporary, time is limited, and justice is ultimately unavoidable. At the same time, the idea of the afterlife should not be misunderstood as an escape of worldly responsibility. Many mistakenly believe that focusing on life after death diminishes engagement with the present. In reality, the opposite is true. When life is seen as preparation, actions become more meaningful, not less. Work gains integrity, relationships gain sincerity, and choices gain weight. Living responsibility becomes an act of faith, not neglect. This perspective also reframes sufferings and struggles. Difficulties are no longer viewed as pointless misfortunes but as tests that shapes character. Patience, resilience, and ethical consistency acquire value beyond immediate outcomes. In this framework, losing morally is worse than losing materially, because consequences are not confined to this world. The question, then, is not whether we are living or dying but how consciously we are doing either. If death is inevitable, ignoring it does not cancel its certainty. If an afterlife exists, neglecting preparation does not eliminate accountability. Perhaps the tragedy of modern life is not disbelief, but distraction. We are too busy to reflect, to occupied to repent, and too exhausted to question the direction we are heading in. So, are we living to die, merely filling time until the inevitable arrives? Or are we dying to live, shaping our present in anticipation of a life beyond this one? The answer lies not in declarations of belief, but in daily choices. How we treat others when no one is watching. How we act when convenience conflicts with conscience. How we prioritize values over velocity. In the end, life is not just about existing until death nor is death the end of existence. Life is a preparation and death is a transition. Recognizing this does not make life bleak, it makes it purposeful. Perhaps, slowing down, reflecting, and reconnecting with accountability is not a retreat from modern life, but a rescue from its emptiness.

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